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How to ask for donations (and write the letter)

Most people dread asking for money. But donors give because someone asked, clearly, for a specific thing.

Asking is a skill, not a personality trait. Here is how to do it, in person and in writing, with a request-letter template.

How to ask well

Start closeYour board, friends, and existing donors first
Be specificA clear amount tied to a clear outcome
Make it easyOne obvious way to say yes
Then thank fastA prompt thank-you keeps them giving

Why asking works

The number-one reason people do not give is simple: no one asked them. People give when a person they trust makes a clear, specific request. That is the whole game.

Who to ask first

Start with your warm circle, board members, friends, family, and existing donors, before strangers. Early gifts from people who already believe in you build the base and the confidence to ask wider.

How to make an ask that lands

In person, letter, or email?

For bigger gifts, in person or a personal call wins. For breadth, a letter or email works, as long as it feels personal and makes one clear ask. For more angles, see our fundraising ideas.

A donation request letter template

Dear [Name], [one sentence on a specific person or need]. At [Organization], [what you do about it]. This year, [specific goal]. Will you give $[amount] to [specific outcome]? You can give at [link], or reply to this letter. Whatever you can do, thank you, it matters. [Name].

After the ask

Whether it is a yes or a no, respond warmly, and thank every giver fast. See how to write a thank-you. A no today is not a no forever.

Common questions

What is the best way to ask for donations?

Ask a specific person for a specific amount tied to a specific outcome, starting with your warm circle, board, friends, and existing donors, before strangers.

How much should I ask for?

A specific amount tied to a concrete result, like "$50 feeds a family for a week." A named number is far easier to say yes to than an open-ended request.

What do I put in a donation request letter?

Open on a specific need, say what you do about it, make one clear ask for a specific amount and outcome, and give an easy way to say yes.

What if a donor says no?

Thank them anyway and keep the relationship warm. Timing and circumstances change, so a no now is often a yes later.

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